By Sharon Akose
President William Ruto has sparked public debate after stating that anyone aged 35 is old enough to marry or get married, remarks that have drawn mixed reactions across the country.
Speaking during a public engagement, President Ruto emphasised the importance of family as a foundational unit of society, noting that marriage plays a key role in promoting stability, responsibility, and social values.
He argued that by the age of 35, many individuals have attained sufficient maturity, education, and life experience to make informed decisions about marriage and family life.
“Marriage is not just a personal choice,” he said, insisting that it is a societal institution that shapes our communities.
“At 35, one is mature enough to settle down and build a family,” the president said.
The Head of State further linked strong family units to national development, stating that stable families contribute to economic growth, moral upbringing of children, and social cohesion. He encouraged young people to balance career ambitions with personal life, warning against excessive delays in starting families.
The remarks have triggered varied reactions, particularly on social media. While some Kenyans supported the president’s view arguing that marriage encourages responsibility and discipline, others criticised the statement as insensitive to modern realities such as unemployment, rising cost of living, and changing social norms.
Critics pointed out that many young professionals prioritise education, career growth, and financial stability before considering marriage. Others argued that marriage is a personal decision that should not be tied to age expectations or political pronouncements.
Women’s rights groups and youth advocates also weighed in, urging leaders to respect individual choices and acknowledge diverse life paths. They emphasised that fulfillment and contribution to society are not solely defined by marital status.
Despite the debate, president Ruto reiterated that his comments were meant to encourage societal values rather than impose obligations. He called for open conversations on family, responsibility, and nation-building, stressing that Kenya’s future depends on both strong institutions and empowered individuals.
The discussion continues to dominate public discourse, reflecting evolving attitudes toward marriage, age, and personal freedom in contemporary Kenyan society.
